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How to Get a Woman Into Bed – What Most Men Don’t Realize
When it comes to women and sex, most guys are in the dark about what really works to get a woman to want to go to bed with them. Even the guys who think that they have it all figured out fail way more often than they succeed. The funny thing about this is, it does not have to be that way. I am not trying to say that you will ever get to a point where you can seduce any woman you want into bed… but you can get to a point where you can be a lot more successful than the average guy really is.
I always go back to the fact that men get most of their sex advice from all of the wrong sources as the reason why the average guy is so unsuccessful at getting the women he really desires into bed with them. Learning techniques from movies and television is probably not your best bet, as most of the writers on these movies and television shows only get women once they start making a lot of money. So, to try and gain a little knowledge from these sources is not exactly the best idea.
What really works to get a woman into bed with you? What are some things that the average guy probably has not realized just yet?
1) To get a woman into bed, you have to do more than just appeal to her physical desires.
This is true for most women, but not all. When you try only to appeal to a woman’s physical desires, you are missing out on most of what causes her to feel sexually attracted. There are so many more layers that you need to be able to touch on, and the average guy just tries to appeal to her physical desire and nothing else.
2) You have to protect her from feeling like she will be thought less of for having been intimate with you.
This world is a funny place, where a guy who gets some is rewarded and the woman who gets some is called names and looked down upon. It may not be as bad today as it was some 50 years ago, but there still is a risk that women face to their reputations if word gets out that they have sex with a guy. To combat this, you need to show her a protective side of you, one that will look out for her reputation so that she is less hesitant and more responsive to what she really wants to do.
How to Seduce a Man – These Three Tips Will Get Him Wound Up
Whether you are looking to seduce your boyfriend or you are trying to seduce a guy you have had your eyes on for some time and you just cannot stand the fact that you have yet to win him over, then this article will help you out. Seducing a man is not the hardest thing to do in the world, but there are better ways than others to go about trying to get him wound up and hot for you.
Seduction is not nearly as mysterious as it seems. When you know how to seduce a guy, then you will be confident that no matter what, you can end up with him wanting only you. Not such a bad thing, is it?
Here’s a few tips on how to seduce a man and get him wound up in a good way:
1) Talk dirty to him.
Here’s the thing about talking dirty to a guy. Some will like it really dirty and risque, but many won’t. If you come across as too “dirty,” it can be a turn off, or it can make him think that all you want is casual sex and nothing more than that. When you talk dirty to a guy, you want to start off really slow. Be subtle, use things that sound dirty, but don’t come right out as being sexual. The more vague you are, the more you get his imagination involved. That’s a good thing. As you can see him starting to get wound up, increase the dirty talk just a little bit more.
2) Touch him where he seldom gets touched.
There are certain areas on a man’s body that only get touched by a woman he’s involved with. And maybe himself as well. Those are the areas that you want to concentrate on. You don’t have to go right for the private areas, though. Touch his chest, his shoulders, wrap your hands around his stomach. These are all areas that don’t get touched by anyone else other than a woman he is intimate with.
3) Move in to kiss him and then pull back at the last second.
You want to get him really wound up? After touching him a little bit, move in for a kiss nice and slow… and then pull back. Tease him so that he wants that kiss more than anything else. Do this and you can bet that he will want to do anything that he has to in order to feel your lips against his.
Do You Know What The Best Part Of Sex Is?
Do you know what my favorite part of sex is? It’s the “after-sex.”
It’s not that I don’t love long bouts of foreplay and intense sex, but the key to good sex is actually wanting that person in your bed after the sex is finished.
I don’t know about you, but for me there’s nothing worse than when the act of sex is over and while you’re staring at the ceiling and looking at the stranger next to you in bed, all you’re doing is wishing they were your dog on the floor. I know that sounds harsh.
The bottom line is if you got laid just for the sake of being laid, then that person laying next to you in bed might as well be invisible. We’ve all been there.
We’ve all had sex with someone because we were so turned on to them in the moment, that you had to ravage their body from head to toe and spend a blissful hour or two having sex. Yes, I believe that sex should be a couple hours of fun.
You meet someone. You have some great mental foreplay. You turn each other on via text messaging. You go out for a drink. You’re crawling all over each other. You have no idea who this person is, but all you want to do is get down and dirty with them.
You go back to your house or their house. You ravage each other for a couple hours. You get off. Then you’re staring at the ceiling saying “Who is this person, and how do I get them to leave?”
Which brings us to the whole point of this blog.
The best part of sex is the “after-sex.” The “after-sex” takes place when you can look at someone, and you realize that you just got it on with someone whom you really like. You think that this person next to you is so hot and sexy, that you can’t wait to be with them again.
The snuggling and the caressing after sex feels so good against your body. You desire them more and not desire them less.
For these reasons, the best part of sex is the exploration after sex. The touching. The conversation. The laughter. The ability to snuggle and spoon the night away pressed up against each other, getting ready for another two hour body ravage.
I don’t have sex unless I know that I’m going to have great “after-sex.” The ability to connect with somebody at a higher level is the only way to have sex in my book… regardless of whether you’re in love, or whether you’re just getting to know and enjoy each other.
I’ve had my share of one-night flings. I’ve had enough of those. I now crave deeper connections with women, whether it’s for a night, a week, a month or for years. It’s the lifestyle I choose to live and the lifestyle I teach.
If you desire greater intimacy, you need to learn the power of “after-sex.” You need to learn the power of the touching, the conversation, and the laughter that leads to true intimacy.
Five Accessories For Hot Bedroom Sex
Are you looking to spice up your sex life? If you are really eager to take your sexual life to another level then you should read on because in this article we are going to discuss about some accessories and changes which when applied in your bedroom will not only make you feel relaxed but create such a beautiful romantic environment that your partner will crave for your touch and your sex life would automatically reach its pinnacle.
Introduce Red The Color Of Love
It is no doubt that the color red is the hottest one amongst all the colors that exist. Red color is known to enhance energy levels and increase the feeling of being tempted. Thus it is a color that is a must in your bedroom to create that magnetic power of attraction between you and your partner. You can use red color accessories like bed sheets, pillows, curtains or paint the wall red or even better would be to wear something red that would directly tempt her towards you.
Arousal With Aroma
Our olfactory lobe which is situated in the brain is directly connected with aromatic smells and plays a strong role in triggering sexual feelings both in men and women. So use this great accessory to spice up your sex life. Put some aromatic oils, candles and air freshener to spread the feeling of love in your bedroom. Keep one thing in mind that not only you but your partner should also feel excited with the smell of these aromatic accessories otherwise it might act as a big turn of for her.
Romantic Books
You can also keep romantic books in your bedroom and both of you can read them together in the bed and follow the encounters mentioned in the book to add new dimensions in your sexual life. It is a great way to try out new things in bed.
Satin The Best Aphrodisiac Known
Believe it or not but the subtle touch of satin on our naked skin stimulates great desire for sex. Just try placing satin bed sheets on your bed and see the magic it creates and how effectively it helps in enjoying sex to its highest peak.
Sexy Foods
It is always advisable to keep some sexy foods like chocolates, cakes, honey, jelly and so on in your bedroom. They are widely known to release mood enhancing hormones which help in enhancing the feeling of sex. Some of them can also be used to massage the body which can help in taking sexual satisfaction to an all new level.